Relationship Coaching

If someone told you that you could develop specific tools and skills to
create the best possible love in your life, would you believe them? Do you talk about love as if it’s an unattainable quality or a passing whim?

Love isn’t about others loving you. It’s about how you love others and mostly love yourself. Intimacy is in direct relationship to vulnerability. Whether you are looking for a life partner, wanting more fulfillment in your current primary relationship or seeking more love in all of your relationships,  Wendy’s relationship coaching can support you in your transformation.

Together, we will explore some of the following concepts:

• You will get to approach your relationships with intention. How are
  you willing to show up in relationship? Is it important to tell your truth
  and risk vulnerability?
• What are the specific non-negotiable qualities that you want in a mate?
• How do you stay intact and grounded in who you are in relationship to everyone in your life?
• Is your communication clear and compassionate?
• Do you get the results that you want from your communication?
• Are you willing to see yourself and others as innocent, doing the best we can with the skills and tools we all have?
• How do you identify, embrace and process your feelings and act on your
  commitment to love and honor yourself?
• What place does chemistry have in relationship to intimacy,
  vulnerability and trust?
• How can dating be an opportunity to practice being yourself?
• What are your boundaries in relationships?

With this work, you will learn to love yourself so that you can love others.
You will learn healthy detachment from expectations and practice attracting others who are willing and ready to explore authentic relationships. Real love is about being in a state of love regardless of where the other person is. Loss of a loved one and the potential for hurt don’t have to be debilitating. Feelings, whether happy or sad are good things. They are what make us human. If we embrace depth in sadness, we create a vein of gold to bring us to depth of joy and love. Love is our natural state of being. It is all there is. In this work, you get to learn the tools and skills to bring you to a fuller state of love and relationship.